Let’s Talk Dirty!

On last week’s post, the blog heated up a bit...
I kind of like that...



Is the fact of wanting to talk about sex openly, either with family, friends and even strangers, to be taken as a sign of insecurity or immaturity? Or by the opposite can it be seen as presumptuous and invasive?



Relationships and attitudes towards them are debatable, so how come this subject is a so called taboo?



We are able to talk frankly about our needs, our wishes, and even our desires... isn’t sex made of all of these exact same conceptions?


I take great pleasure in discussing relationships and their different dynamics, to understand the various roles and reactions but at the same time I enjoy provoking people out of their shells, out of their comforts zone... Ultimately I adore being surprised and shocked... becoming myself subject of someone else’s study...



Bad judgement and narrow-mindedness make people closed to what can also be valid arguments...
Prejudice and misconceived ideas are many times the best defence for some to something that they are uncomfortable with...


Sex talks are one of the best proofs of that... Sex talks is not just talking about the act itself...

It should be how all the variables, situations and primal instincts led to that one desire... It should be how all came to be and how does the mind and body react to it...

Finally it should be how those urges were expressed as... how they revealed themselves...
That’s what I like to talk about!

Are you a SEP?! (Sexually Emancipated Person)

This will be my most daring post yet...
For those who actually know me, it should not come as a shock because most likely we’ve already talked about this... for everyone else, brace yourselves...



In some places it’s starting now, and in others it’s been happening for quite a while...
Being a Sexually Emancipated Person does not qualify a person as better or worse than another, it just shows how some relate, or not, to sex as discussion subject and how it’s taken as part of a relationship or just simply as a physical need...
It’s statistically proven that 90% of the so called pickups in clubs and bars actually start from the female part... so for all you players out there... it’s not just you playing...
That being said, the big question lies in understanding if simply the physical attraction is enough to have a sexual encounter or some sort of feeling is needed? And in either event, how do people react to it?
History has been written in the sense that the Man has the god-given right to have feel-free sex and that the Woman should become in some way attached to him...

What I believe is that this situation is no longer accurate...
As Man and Woman are obviously different, in their anatomy but also in their various desires and wishes, they should be seen as equals in their roles as sexual beings...

The mentality is changing, and most impressively and even funny is how some men are unable to deal with the fact that sometimes they are not, or won’t be, the ones to decide the fate of the relationship and even lose themselves for not knowing how to handle that...
As for the women point of view on this change, I don't feel it would be my place to say...

The Fun Hangover

Have you ever been away on holidays with some friends and despite being completely exhausted from the trip back home, you feel the need to do something besides staying in immediately after you just walked through your door?
Have you ever gone to a summer festival and/or camping and got back home tired and still you couldn’t stay still?
Have you ever felt inexplicably sad for no apparent reason after a good weekend of partying?
No?!
In that case, it’s just me then...

I have looked back and came to these conclusions...
I do feel the need to do something or I feel kind of down for no good reason after having the time of my life...

I call it the Fun Hangover... You experience something overwhelming, or you spend time with some of your closest friends and you create a space of storage in your head to manage and gather such happiness and excitement... You save images, sounds and even smells and later you associate with either that or that moment...
And when it’s all over that space then becomes empty... so what do you do now? Should you stop?
Definitely not!
In my opinion you should embrace and even appreciate such emptiness and conclude that it’s in fact a sign that you had a great time and that now it’s time to discover your next adventure...
With my kind of lifestyle I’ve been made fun of that I won’t last long... Funny, right?
But since I don’t live to work but work to live, I will enjoy the best I can, and to the fullest!