Games amongst people are a way to draw, provoke and appeal another person for whom you may have some interest in getting to know better or a simple and pure physical attraction...
Games don’t mean one is Playing and the other is Played... it should mean that it’s the evolved today’s way to court someone, to pull them and get their curiosity...
Playing Games vary in the different stages of the human interactions...
In the beginning it should be entertaining and enjoyable to play with someone new and get to know their different opinions and various personality features...With a sexual interest it can be translated in sending mixed signals... in flirting and then seeming unaffected by the reactions... it normally captivates the attention of both involved as it is an open and harmless game...
It is part of the human nature to take something for granted when all points in that direction, so in a relationship I believe that a small level of insecurity is actually healthy...
For either parts the sense that they have to work hard and on a day-to-day basis to keep the other person is essential for the well being of both and their relationship...
Neither should be afraid all the time but either 100% safe, relationships should be an easy and exciting challenge but nevertheless a challenge...
Part of the Game is also giving more than the other person expects every now and then... it would be boring if the other person already knew and expected something like this and therefore with no surprise at all...
I consider being Played, when lies and deception are used to allure someone... when one the parts doesn’t understand that a game is being played... when someone is unaware that the other person knows what his or her actions are causing and also knows that it is purposely confusing them...
In a relationship being Played happens when someone does to the other what and how he/she pleases without any consideration of his or her feelings... No one likes to be a punching bag or a carpet to be stepped on, so at some point a change should, must and will happen...I love Playing these Games of attraction and flirting, especially after acknowledging the differences between Playing and being Played...
In sum, Life is a Game, so Play nice...
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